At a time to be jolly ...

Salary is NOT IN as usual despite the memo distributed last week on the early (by 22nd) deposit.
Some staffs do get SMS alert of the delay during the long weekend.
I don't get the SMS alert and also not alerted in any other way coz' i didn't check the balance during the long weekend.
Lucky for me, somehow someone pay her "long overdue hutang" so I can cover the "belanja pasar".

Apparently this is the first ever salary deposit hiccup for this Company with more than 20OOO staffs for the last 40+ years of its existence.
The "veteran" staffs keep mentioning of the splendid record of the 100% on time salary payment of the Company.
The internal team responsible for the task claimed that this is due to the centralized bank boo boo. But the ever sceptical employees perception is otherwise, the blame is on the new "HR" system ... "tu lah memang sistem lama tu jugak yang bagus, sepanjang sejarah M*S ni tak pernah gaji lambat masuk" ... me just smile and "angguk-angguk" every now and then, do not dare to disagree with a group of very emotionally dissapointed collegues. The most I can do is to offer to make some coffee or milo for the disgruntled collegues.

I do pity those who are celebrating their CHRISTMAS ... what an anti-climax ! Sedikit sebanyak pasti agak terjejas ke"excited"an menyambut Christmas. Although not as sad as the flood-stricken Christians friends down south.
BTW our emmdeee also celebrate Christmas. Hopefully his holiday celebration is not too badly ruin with the news of this boo boo.


Kut jadi masa nak raya kita, sure bengkek gakkk !

Anyway , selamat merayakan hari bahagia christmas untuk rakan-rakan Kristian dan selamat bercuti untuk mereka-mereka yang menghabiskan cuti akhir tahun . Semoga anda tidak menghadapi masaalah yang sama, kefutusan fulus, seperti kami, pekerja-pekerja M*S ...

Soccer Day

0723AM 11-23-2006 @ Breakfast table @ BJ .

SMS - Yr sons selected to play soccer this Sat 25 Nov at 8.30 am at BJ Padang. Tq. CE.

The #1 --- Abang kena main jugak ke ? Mmmm OKlah.


Azfar in light blue T-shirt and black track-suit.

The #2 --- Yeee .... bila Mak bila Mak ? Sabtu ... lambatnya Sabtu. Tak sabar Aman nak tunggu Sabtu.

Aman in RED


Good Job to Coach Sarjana & CE & Tadika Bahtera Ilmu. An appreciated effort from fellow parents and neighbours of BJ.
For the results and upcoming events ... please read the below email extracted from BJRA egroups. So BJ Mommy bloggers ... mau join itu Mommy Futsal ke ?

Dear Residents,

The friendly football matches this morning, organised by BJ Sarjana Football Team, was a runaway success. More than 80 children from BJ, Subang Jaya and Sungai Long participated. The children thoroughly enjoyed the morning. In the Under 12, Sg Long beat BJ 2-1, Under 10, BJ beat Sg Long 4-1 and in the Under 8, BJ was was held to a draw (2-2) by Subang Jaya. The matches was well supported by parents. Thank you to parents who contributed snacks and drinks for the children. Tadika Bahtera Ilmu also graciously contributed drinks and nasi lemak. Thank you.

To keep the children gainfully occupied during the school holidays and to promote family sports, BJ Sarjana Football Team will be organising a Futsal Carnival sometime in December. Besides the usual boys, this time we hope to raise at least two girls teams, two mothers teams and two fathers team. This Futsal carnival is opened to all residents of BJ regardless of their affiliation. Keep a look out for the date then.

CE

It does come from the heart, trust me !

A long lost friend , PPP's "APA KHABAR?" email pop up in my mailbox the week after Raya.
It is not such a wonder in today's virtually connected world, where everything is at the tip of our fingers. A few forwarded emails and with the help of the Tetikus scrolling up and down, familar text come to vision. With a "one-in-a-million" name like mine, it is a safe bet. But still one can never be too sure. Further clicks away ... the email reach my proxy mailbox which later is auto-forwarded to my active mailbox.
To the unbelieving eyes, the window session is refresh a few times and the "IT HELPDESK" in me, even restart the computer , not once but twice, ... just to make sure what's read is for real.

All the meaningful coincidences in life ... starting a friendship, cherishing it, lapsing on it and the awareness that out there, after all these years, somewhere thoughtful friends do exist ...

Yes ... in life we do welcome some sweetener every now and then. And what can be sweeter than a friendship extended from the heart !

* PPP - Personal & Private person, it's not People Progressive Party wokey !
pssttt : what i recalled mostly about PPP is the handwriting - i always thought PPP write like a typewriter - very very very neat !

photo source : http://www.ladytypewriter.co.uk/gallery.htm

Sedekad dah hidup

Last week conversation in the car, on the way to AdDaris for "mengaji".

Azfar : Mak, minggu depan abang dah hidup sedekad !
Mak : Mmmmm sedekad tu apa ?
Azfar : Sepuluh tahun. Tak payah nak buat "birthday", abang tak nak hadiah buku atau apa-apa yang kena beli. Umur Mak berapa ?
Mak : 38
Azfar : Macam tu Mak dah hidup hampir 4 DEKAD !


Eyang (nenek) make special breakfast this morning. Baked Honey Chicken Wings, Coleslow and Egg Sandwich. Mak, faithful Giant donor, bought chocolates the night before for the breakfast party.


L to R :
Aman (kaki sakit kejang main bola kelmarinnya), Eyang, Ilyas, Azfar & Aziz.
Baba Uqbah tiada dalam gambar sebab sibuk nak ambik gambar.
Mak & the Ayahanda tiada dalam gambar sebab sibuk adjust Uqbah yang nak ambik gambar.


Today, exception is given to the Ilyas, the next-door-boy in yellow, to come for breakfast before his morning shower. In fact the birthday boy and the birthday boy siblings pun semua belum mandi !!!



And Mak give Azfar a "tak payah beli" present. A more patient, a less erratic , more understanding mother . And a present of prayer ... Semoga Abang Paa di kurniakan kesihatan, kepandaian, kesopanan dan kesusilaan. Dan murah rezeki dan sentiasa dilindungi Allah.

As usual, the winner of any eating contest is ...

The Bye Bye Letter ... not mine lah !

At 10 pm, after dinner and the kids all in bed, already in the lala land, the Ayahanda, finally said the word ... "I am ready to resign, please help to write the Resignation Letter" . In this house, I am always the one have to do the writing up. For this particular occasion I happily obliged.

So I go goggling "resignation letter". I am expecting to get a few standard templates and make some minor adjustment and in 20 minutes I can join the la la land. Aside from the standard "Bye Bye" letter, look what I find goggling .

A simple one like this ... Nixon's resignation letter . Sweet and simple and right to the point.

http://www.watergate.info/nixon/resignation-letter.shtml

And the other extreme of detail resignation letters from several high-ranking US State Department personnel.

One from Mary (Ann) Wright, Deputy Chief of Mission at the US Embassy in Mongolia . She resigned due to her disagreement with the Bush administration's decision to go to war in Iraq without the authorization of the UN Security Council, the lack of effort in resolving the Israel-Palestinian situation, the lack of policy on North Korea and unnecessary curtailment of civil liberties in the United States. Read details below.

On a similar note of clashed principles - John Brady Kiesling's, who resigned while serving at the U.S. Embassy in Athens, Greece.

The letters are rather long, but worth reading.

Ever wonder how does the "Datuks" of Klang Municipal Councils' resignation letters look like ?
I don't want to speak politics here, remember, my assignment from the Ayahanda is to write up his resignation letter, melalut pulak Makcik ni, which I completed in 10 minutes.

Just tickling your conscience with all these principled resignation. Ye lah kan, tak kan nak makan gaji buta . Happy reading and be grateful, there are still principled people around.

Source : http://www.govexec.com/dailyfed/0303/032103wright.htm

The following is a copy of Mary (Ann) Wright's letter of resignation to Secretary of State Colin Powell. Wright was most recently the deputy chief of mission at the U.S. embassy in Ulaanbaatar, Mongolia. She helped open the U.S. embassy in Kabul, Afghanistan, in January 2002.

U.S. Embassy
Ulaanbaatar, Mongolia
March 19, 2003


Secretary of State Colin Powell
US Department of State
Washington, DC 20521


Dear Secretary Powell:


When I last saw you in Kabul in January, 2002 you arrived to officially open the US Embassy that I had helped reestablish in December, 2001 as the first political officer. At that time I could not have imagined that I would be writing a year later to resign from the Foreign Service because of US policies. All my adult life I have been in service to the United States. I have been a diplomat for fifteen years and the Deputy Chief of Mission in our Embassies in Sierra Leone, Micronesia, Afghanistan (briefly) and Mongolia. I have also had assignments in Somalia, Uzbekistan, Kyrgyzstan, Grenada and Nicaragua. I received the State Department's Award for Heroism as Charge d'Affaires during the evacuation of Sierra Leone in 1997. I was 26 years in the US Army/Army Reserves and participated in civil reconstruction projects after military operations in Grenada, Panama and Somalia. I attained the rank of Colonel during my military service.


This is the only time in my many years serving America that I have felt I cannot represent the policies of an Administration of the United States. I disagree with the Administration's policies on Iraq, the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, North Korea and curtailment of civil liberties in the U.S. itself. I believe the Administration's policies are making the world a more dangerous, not a safer, place. I feel obligated morally and professionally to set out my very deep and firm concerns on these policies and to resign from government service as I cannot defend or implement them.


I hope you will bear with my explanation of why I must resign. After thirty years of service to my country, my decision to resign is a huge step and I want to be clear in my reasons why I must do so.


I disagree with the Administration's policies on Iraq


I wrote this letter five weeks ago and held it hoping that the Administration would not go to war against Iraq at this time without United Nations Security Council agreement. I strongly believe that going to war now will make the world more dangerous, not safer.


There is no doubt that Saddam Hussein is a despicable dictator and has done incredible damage to the Iraqi people and others of the region. I totally support the international community's demand that Saddam's regime destroy weapons of mass destruction.

However, I believe we should not use US military force without UNSC agreement to ensure compliance. In our press for military action now, we have created deep chasms in the international community and in important international organizations. Our policies have alienated many of our allies and created ill will in much of the world.


Countries of the world supported America's action in Afghanistan as a response to the September 11 Al Qaida attacks on America. Since then, America has lost the incredible sympathy of most of the world because of our policy toward Iraq. Much of the world considers our statements about Iraq as arrogant, untruthful and masking a hidden agenda. Leaders of moderate Moslem/Arab countries warn us about predicable outrage and anger of the youth of their countries if America enters an Arab country with the purpose of attacking Moslems/Arabs, not defending them. Attacking the Saddam regime in Iraq now is very different than expelling the same regime from Kuwait, as we did ten years ago.


I strongly believe the probable response of many Arabs of the region and Moslems of the world if the US enters Iraq without UNSC agreement will result in actions extraordinarily dangerous to America and Americans. Military action now without UNSC agreement is much more dangerous for America and the world than allowing the UN weapons inspections to proceed and subsequently taking UNSC authorized action if warranted.


I firmly believe the probability of Saddam using weapons of mass destruction is low, as he knows that using those weapons will trigger an immediate, strong and justified international response. There will be no question of action against Saddam in that case. I strongly disagree with the use of a "preemptive attack" against Iraq and believe that this preemptive attack policy will be used against us and provide justification for individuals and groups to "preemptively attack" America and American citizens.


The international military build-up is providing pressure on the regime that is resulting in a slow, but steady disclosure of Weapons of Mass Destruction (WMD). We should give the weapons inspectors time to do their job. We should not give extremist Moslems/ Arabs a further cause to hate America, or give moderate Moslems a reason to join the extremists. Additionally, we must reevaluate keeping our military forces in the Middle East, particularly in Saudi Arabia. Their presence on the Islamic "holy soil" of Saudi Arabia will be an anti-American rally cry for Moslems as long as the US military remains and a strong reason, in their opinion, for actions against the US government and American citizens.


Although I strongly believe the time in not yet right for military action in Iraq, as a soldier who has been in several military operations, I hope General Franks, US and coalition forces can accomplish the missions they will be ordered do without loss of civilian or military life and without destruction of the Iraqi peoples' homes and livelihood.


I strongly urge the Department of State to attempt again to stop the policy that is leading us to military action in Iraq without UNSC agreement. Timing is everything and this is not yet the time for military action.


I disagree with the Administration's lack of effort in resolving the Israeli-Palestinian conflict


Likewise, I cannot support the lack of effort by the Administration to use its influence to resurrect the Israeli-Palestinian peace process. As Palestinian suicide bombers kill Israelis and Israeli military operations kill Palestinians and destroy Palestinian towns and cities, the Administration has done little to end the violence. We must exert our considerable financial influence on the Israelis to stop destroying cities and on the Palestinians to curb its youth suicide bombers. I hope the Administration's long-needed "Roadmap for Peace" will have the human resources and political capital needed to finally make some progress toward peace.


I disagree with the Administration's lack of policy on North Korea


Additionally, I cannot support the Administration's position on North Korea. With weapons, bombs and missiles, the risks that North Korea poses are too great to ignore. I strongly believe the Administration's lack of substantive discussion, dialogue and engagement over the last two years has jeopardized security on the peninsula and the region. The situation with North Korea is dangerous for us to continue to neglect.


I disagree with the Administration's policies on Unnecessary Curtailment of Rights in America


Further, I cannot support the Administration's unnecessary curtailment of civil rights following September 11. The investigation of those suspected of ties with terrorist organizations is critical but the legal system of America for 200 years has been based on standards that provide protections for persons during the investigation period. Solitary confinement without access to legal counsel cuts the heart out of the legal foundation on which our country stands. Additionally, I believe the Administration's secrecy in the judicial process has created an atmosphere of fear to speak out against the gutting of the protections on which America was built and the protections we encourage other countries to provide to their citizens.


Resignation


I have served my country for almost thirty years in the some of the most isolated and dangerous parts of the world. I want to continue to serve America. However, I do not believe in the policies of this Administration and cannot defend or implement them. It is with heavy heart that I must end my service to America and therefore resign due to the Administration's policies.


Mr. Secretary, to end on a personal note, under your leadership, we have made great progress in improving the organization and administration of the Foreign Service and the Department of State. I want to thank you for your extraordinary efforts to that end. I hate to leave the Foreign Service, and I wish you and our colleagues well.


Very Respectfully,


Mary A. Wright, FO-01


Deputy Chief of Mission
US Embassy
Ulaanbaatar, Mongolia