However well we plan, if it is not what HE decide for us, it will not happen.
Even so, it is fun to plan and strive for the best outcome. Sort of give hope for better future or the least, keep our brain stimulated.
Now let's see how many plans have confirmed "tak menjadi" so far ...
Dream of expat wife life ala-ala the 2 goddess friends in Alkhobar & Qatar - cancelled Sept 06
Road to Brunei - cancelled July 06
So for now, and may be for a loooong time still to come, the "Dear Boss, I am saying Bye Bye to you" letter will remain in the Draft folder.
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Oooohhh Ninuk
Bab planning and cancelling ni dah biasa dah in my household.
First, our plan to Bahrain ---cancelled
Pas tu, plan to Down Under--- pun cancelled
Pas tree, plan to L0ndon ---pun cancelled
No more dah sbb Mr kata stay close to the family lah. His parents dah 75yo++ Habis cerita.
same here...
plan nak ke Sudan tak jadi;
plan nak ke Abu Dhabi pun tak jadi;
ntahlah dengar2 mcm nak ke Jakarta; tapi yang ni i harap tak jadi. lemas lah life in a big crowded city lagipun yang ni bole gi dengan 'now everyone can fly'
oops wait
baru je dengar nak ke Bahrain..
que sera sera
Ala Malaysia pun best jugak.
** Sedap kan hati **. Rest assured, many other goddess wannabe in the same boat. I was hoping to re-migrate to US end of this year. Got a job offer already, both me and partner. But then.. working visa dah exceed quota pulak. What to do. What another year lah.
In the meantime, lets make the best of this place.
Ala Malaysia pun best jugak.
** Sedap kan hati **. Rest assured, many other goddess wannabe in the same boat. I was hoping to re-migrate to US end of this year. Got a job offer already, both me and partner. But then.. working visa dah exceed quota pulak. What to do. What another year lah.
In the meantime, lets make the best of this place.
ni isteri engineers jugak la ni eh..same old story with me too. korea tak jadi, vietnam thwarted, qatar-broken dream, now tengah cari kat NZ or australia. it's not the expat life we are looking for innit? abang nak perkembangkan diri, kembangkan poket...mudah2an ada la rezeki kan?
all the best to you. i dah tak tunggu dia dah, i went and apply for a government job...i'll just cross the bridge when i get there.
shiok jugak kalau kita semua kumpul dekat2 lollies and elisa kan?
ha ha ha i thought i am the only deprived-wanna-be-goddess ... rupanya ramai yang se"bakul" dengan ku. nampaknya kita kena berguru dgn Makcik Goddess Elisa & Lollies.
alaaaaa.... I dah termimpi-mimpi nak bertukar2 pinggan meehoon dengan you.. ;)
anyways..
for my case, we didnt plan for it. tup tup fell on our laps and all we had to do was decide whether to take it or not, then act accordingly.
Maybe that's the way to do it. Jangan plan and harap lebih2 sebab nanti frust. Just go with the flow. Kalau ada rezeki, (dan dimana ada rezeki) di situlah kita pegi...
elisa dear ... begitulah resam hidup ... kadang dapat, kadang tak dapat. like when i got this M*S offer, entah ribut tidak hujan tidak ada pulak peluang ... betul cakap you , let the flow flows ... jangan flow out dah !
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